Can you change someone’s financial behavior ? I gave a talk a few weeks ago and a woman asked me how to do this. Her financial situation was rocky. She had lost her job, her debts were climbing and she desperately needed to get out of debt. On top of this, her husband kept pretending nothing was wrong.
She told us they had been married for 18 years and he never acted responsibly when it came to the subject of money. He spent what he wanted to spend and, to make matters worse, barely made any income.
I was at a loss for words – a rare occurrence.
Outside of filing for divorce, what would you suggest she do? Have you ever been confronted by a situation like this? What worked? What didn’t?