I don’t think it’s weird at all…I think if you talk about it every three months, it’s cool. Just make sure the conversation is open and inviting so if she (or you) have a resentment building, you can air it out.

I know you are a smart cookie, so I’m sure you both have a plan and audit to make sure you are advancing towards it. So sounds like you are both on the same page. Nicely done young man! You also get a Pilgrim Pick of the Pack Award! Me likey….
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Neal, do you think that it’s weird that my wife and I never have arguments about money? We talk about our plan maybe once every 3 months, but go about with our team saving and spending habits. She works and has her own income of course.

Our goals are exactly the same, and that is to retire after 20 years of work and do something completely free and different.
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I just think that, left “untreated” the money thing comes between people – even if they don’t give voice to it. I could be wrong of course but I feel that if we don’t talk about this in an organized way, it creates problems that sometimes come out sideways….

I like your suggested process, and think it would be a good idea for my husband and I to literally go through and try to answer the questions you posed for each other to see where we think we stand. Even though we have a good money relationship, talking about it more won’t hurt!
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